Met a cutie @ a bar. We hit it off great. He wants to keep in touch & wants me to give him a chance so that we can get to know each other better. But because I met him in a bar: Instant dealbreaker. I just feel like they're there to scoop up random chicks every weekend. Am I right or is that a picky reason to instantly reject a guy?
It is picky yes. I think you should get to know him first. He could have just been there and having a good time, and he saw you and liked you. It's not like he wanted a one night stand. You were at a bar too. So it seems hypocritical to reject someone for that reason. You were there for a good time likely, so why would it be different for him? I think considering he didn't try to take you home, it's a good sign.