So I've being going out with this guy since May (me 24, him 30), at first he was all romantic, nervous and sweet and understanding (I am a virgin and I told him that), texting every single day. We got physical, but I was completely comfortable with it and we didn't have sex in the end, just a bit of fun without clothes on. Then in the beginning of August I got sick, I was in the hospital for a week in another city (city of my parents, 1 hour drive from the city I live in) and he started sending me these texts being a bit rude about my condition, asking if I was smelling rotten yet and stuff like that. In that first week I told him I missed him only to be made fun of and asked if that was a symptom of my disease. I've been home with my parents since then because I am still so weak I can't really drive or even go get food for my own, I've lost a lot of weight and I am below the healthy BMI. The guy kept texting me every day, but just random conversation, nothing remotely romantic or talking about feelings or anything like that. I am a graphic designer but now I work as a photographer and Monday I changed my facebook pic. So, this guy (that knows nothing about photography, image or design) out of nowhere just tells me that even a 5 year old could take that picture, that it looked like a blot. That was the last straw for me, I asked him that if he didn't have anything positive to say about it, why did he even say anything at all? He said that he was just saying that as constructive criticism. I ingnored it and a few minutes later he charged again saying that it looked like something out of the exorcist, and immediately after that he said "I'm so mean to you but I am always joking". Doesn't he realize that this kind of words hurt? I don't need this bad energy in my life, and he was NEVER like this in the beggining. I stopped talking to him and he doesn't say anything as well since Monday, don't know what to do guys...
Guy being sarcastic/rude after it got physical... ?
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You should either:
1- confront him and ask him why has he changed all of a sudden; make sure to get it through to him that you're sick of his inappropriate actions.
2- stop contacting him, and remove him from your life for good so that he doesn't hinder your feeling process or make you feel undesired feelings that might cause you to be uneasy.
One should never be in a relationship that keeps wrecking them, if that was ever a relationship in the first place.
by the way, I'm studying to be a graphic designer too, and I love photography :')
Best of luck, sweetie.1
just keep ignoring him.0
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