It seems like the ones who actually seem like good candidates for being in a relationship are usually the ones having the hardest time. This isn't a typical "nice guy" complaining question. I mean this over both genders.
You read or hear about other people's relationships and think, "How did that thug/loser/bitch get into a relationship?" Like usually many people in relationships don't even want to be in one and again are not sincere about it.
It's like if you make a poll asking if iPhones or Android phones are better and most people know that Android is objectively better many times, yet 80% of the US population has iPhones.
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You don't know what goes on it those relationships you see on facebook or elsewhere, so you really want to avoid being envious. the best way to look at this scenario is that if she is amazing she won't be easy and if she's easy she won't be amazing. An amazing women is the women that is kind to everyone, educated, has a real job, respects herself and for lack of better term has her shit together. The woman that is amazing and single isn't worried about meeting someone because they are doing things like, spending time with family, going to school and going rock climbing with friends. They are busy doing things and this is why you don't run into these women very often. To sum it all up they have goals and plans for their life, want to live life to the fullest and aren't sulking around about how they are single and revolving their life around trying to meet a guy. The other girl that is easy and jumps from one relationship to the next with guys that are losers have issues, read up on my take on the girls that get with these guys for a better explanation, but to sum that up this girl will have problems and revolves her life around meeting guys. Read up on my take for a better explanation.0