Okay, I'm at college in Boston Massachusetts. I'm only 5 foot 7/8ish and I'm 145lbs. I'd rate myself at a solid 7/10 on a good day. I'd say there is a 60/40 ratio of girls/guys at my school, and its only the first week but a lot of girls are taken.
Now that I have the background info out of the way, time for the question: How do I start talking to a girl I like in my math class without sounding creepy. She's really cute. Also, in general, how do I approach girls without coming off as desperate or creepy?
Most Helpful Girl
''Are you girls super-shy or what?''
I’ve been here for ten minutes and you haven’t offered to buy me a drink or even said hello. This one puts them on the spot slightly and then releases the tension; they’ll laugh if it’s delivered right.
Haha, good luck.0
Most Helpful Guy
For specific girls, it's difficult. You could just talk to her about homework or something. You have to put on an act like you are not thinking about her "in that way" whatsoever. You are legitimately focused on the topic you are discussing with her. Wait until the opprotunity to get more personal comes up before you do so - this could take weeks, though.
in general, it's a little bit easier. Basically, just find guy friends and go to bars or clubs with them. The girls there are usually there specifically because they want to be talked to, and the alcohol helps in that regard. It's a little weird to go alone, though, so make a friend.0