I had a blind date with this good looking geophysicist. During the date, he asked me a lot of questions about my life and career, and we laughed a lot. We had a lot in common. The thing is, we never flirted. He asked me what was my priority for now to which I answered, my career.
I ended the date first and asked him what the time was. I told him then I needed to go home and study. He hugged me but when I said see you later, he said nothing.
I was hoping we could be friends. We can, we have a lot to talk about. I think there might not be a second date.
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"The thing is, we never flirted."
That's often a sign there will be no second date. Perhaps he thought you weren't attracted to him and so there would be little point. Perhaps he wasn't physically attracted to you. Perhaps he was physically attracted to you, but thought you wouldn't have much to do with him. Perhaps he wasn't emotionally attracted to you. Perhaps he didn't find you interesting. Who knows?
by the way, did you flirt with him? Did you want to flirt with him?
You may never know why. It's a fact of life that not everyone will be attracted to you, just as you won't be attracted to everyone. I guess you just have to keep on flyin' and find someone else.0
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