I thought he liked me but the last time I texted him I asked why he had to leave in the middle of the night. Then I started talking about a relationship and he said he's not ready to be anyones boyfriend so if I'm going to leave good riddens and good bye. I asked why he was being rude and then he responded by calling me a thot (which is a hoe) and told me to never text his phone again and that he disrepects me because I'm a hoe... I don't get it he wanted me to be in relationship in the beginning I wasn't ready yet and now that I was more comfortable I want what he wants and now he's being rude. Confused on what to do..
Most Helpful Guy
Well he isn't worth it either way but he might have been sore. You denied him a relationship when he wanted it and maybe he thought: fuck it, it's payback time. Either he became a douche or he was one from the beginning. Doesn't really matter, the implications are clear: move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
I dislike guys like that.
They pretty much want to "hit and run".
But what do they think they are... when they sleep with a girl right away?
He's a "hoe" as well if that's the word he is looking to throw out.
What does the think he is immuned because he is a guy?
You weren't just used, you were disrespected.
All I can say is carry your pride and move on.
Never let someone take that away from you.
He called you names... but I have ten times more in my mind, I can think of what to call him!
Move on from this.
Some guys respect you no matter what (whether you choose to be friends with benefits them or in a relationship).
Not all guys are like him.0