Interpreting mixed signals?

So I've been seeing this girl that i work with for around a month now, and sometimes she'll text me first, ask me to come over etc. Other times she'll take ages to reply and say she's busy when I ask to hang out. She was a bit apprehensive at first due to the whole 'dont date co-workers thing', but its been going okay since we had a chat about that. I feel like she's sending mixed signals and im not quite sure how to go about it from here. I actually really like her and i want to show her that without coming on too strong.

Also she was talking to a mutual friend and mentioned that she's 'not really a relationship kind of person'.

Any advice would be great about how to go about it and whether or not she seems interested :)

Thanks!


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  • "and sometimes she'll text me first, ask me to come over etc."

    ^textin first's good... even if its just "sometimes"... means there's interest from her side... :)

    "Other times she'll take ages to reply and say she's busy when I ask to hang out. "

    ^i think she's actually busy and she's not lyin then... ;)

    "She was a bit apprehensive at first due to the whole 'dont date co-workers thing', but its been going okay since we had a chat about that. "

    ^u can see each other out of work... don't u?

    "I feel like she's sending mixed signals and im not quite sure how to go about it from here. I actually really like her and i want to show her that without coming on too strong."

    ^u've got good signs already... like when she's initiatin... or when u had a chat about datin each other... and she was ok about it as u said... ;)

    "Also she was talking to a mutual friend and mentioned that she's 'not really a relationship kind of person'."

    ^well... maybe she might be seein u as a friend now... but she'll change her mind later... :)

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