I'm the guy, I'm 16 a junior in high school. I wear glasses and I've never had a girlfriend and have been rejected twice. I have CF so I'm infertile, out of shape (I work out like a beast at gym to get into shape and I have been working out harder than ever since the beginning of school), sweat 500% more than a normal person and it's humiliating, and have a 40 year lifespan. Anyways, we have civics together and I haven't got a chance to talk to her yet but I will tomorrow no matter what happens. I hate everything about myself, I'm ugly, out of shape, slow, nice, poor, stupid, I'm terrible with people especially girls, I wear glasses, I look like a 40 year old, I lie, I cheat, and I used to steal. Anyways, I really like her but am I good enough for her? Please Answer?
Most Helpful Girl
You're so self-degrading, please stop. Have some self-respect. You do not look like a 40 year old. My senior class had kids looking older than you. Nobody wants someone who lies, cheats, and/or steals, so cut that shit out. I'm done with people who think they're ugly. You call yourself ugly, you insult God. Being nice, why is that bad? Not all girls want a bad boy you know. I sure as hell did not. You are getting into shape, so that's fine. Slow and stupid - how? And poor, well you're 16! What do you expect? Glasses don't make a difference. The sweating, as long as it doesn't smell much is fine. The CF is a problem if she wants kids, but otherwise is not. (Think about it though, sex without worry, major plus.) And 40 year lifespan, depends. I'm not sure.2
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly, if I was a girl, I wouldn't be interested by someone that negative...
First, girls don't only focus on looks ( but it helps a lot hehe (not to be cocky😎))
Then, you can go to the gym everyday of the week but nothing is gonna change if u eat unhealthy.
Think positively about yourself first and then make small changes to your personality.
I have been rejected 2 times too... I don't give a shit, because when I think a bout those 2 girls, i'm glad they said no cause I'm too good for them ( not being cocky again😤)
But yeah just believe in yourself before you go looking desperate for a girlfriend1