Just recently my ex has come back into my life, we haven't spoke since end of June, and out of the blue, I got a message from him, I said why have you just come back after all this time, he said he thought about me, he missed me, he hurt me, but wants a new start with me.
I told him I wasn't going to wait around for him to message me when he felt like it
I would move on and find someone else
I said I wasn't looking for a bit of fun, he never insinuated that, but wanted to make it clear to him
I said I was looking for a real relationship
I then gave him an ultimatium
I've come to a decision that new start, starts by you meeting me
is yes then great
if no I am moving on to find someone else, and I mean it
If you care about meet you will meet otherwise I am really gone
it's upto you, it's your last chance to meet me
He replied to my message
I would love to see you
don't want to miss out on this last chance
He's been in regular contact everyday since issuing him with the ultimatium
so what do you guys think, was he scared to lose me? Does he really want a relationship with me?
A serious relationship?
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You approach is all wrong.. Don't give ultimatums. They don't work.. Focus on your inner self instead. What do you want? Do you this man as he is today to be the love of your life? He broke your heart once, what makes you think he won't again?
Set the terms by being in the driver seat. Don't go to him and give him a laundry list to decide upon. You decide what you want and stick to it
meanwhike intinue daring and NEVER stop! Until you get a ring0