This guy was an acquaintance for years while I was in a long term relationship. When my ex and I broke up he started chatting with me daily and we got flirty with one another. He has shown interest in me but he is shy, and also has circumstances in his life that make him feel unready to be in a relationship right now. He still talks to me every day though and is somewhat affectionate. However I want a relationship with someone, and wish it could be with him. I don't want to be very pushy so I give him the space he needs, if he does... And I am willing to wait until he is ready if he would like to start a relationship at some point, but he doesn't expect me to wait around (despite getting jealous of other guys talking to me). He is all I can really think about and as much as I'd like to try to date other guys, I only find myself wanting it to be him. He seems to like me back, but will my waiting for him to be ready de-value me (as in, will he think it's sad that I stayed single waiting to date him) or will he find this reassuring and nice?
Guys, if I choose to stay single until he is ready for a relationship, will he think more of me or less of me?
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