How to show interest without seeming so available?

How can I show the man that I like him without coming off as desperate or too available?


Most Helpful Guy

  • Accept some of his invitations to do things but decline a few of them and propose a later date. Don't always respond right away to his messages. Show some sporadic contact like grab his arm when you laugh at his jokes, but don't leave it there. Etc.


Most Helpful Girl

  • In order to get noticed, you need to be noticeable. Wear something that will catch his attention. A brightly colored top, a flowing skirt, kick-ass boots or an interesting hair clip could do the job. You want to stand out without seeming to be an eccentric.

    Your outfit should be a non-verbal conversation. Someone checking out your ensemble should be able to get a general sense of you. Use the winter to your advantage. In a sea of darks, be a shining beacon of colour.

    Good luck.


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