i was dating a guy for a few months and he offered me to be exclusive
(for me the options are actually no relationship at all or an exclusive one because i can get super jealous and it would hurt me)
i reeeeeeeally like him the only problem is that i will go abroad for about 8 months in January so pretty soon.
at the moment i am somehow over him because a few days he told me he doesn't want an exclusive relationship so i tried to get over it
i know that when we continue dating i would fall in love even more, he would be "my first", we would have wonderful moments but i am afraid of January already. it will of course hurt more if we are together until i have to go than if we are not together at all
what would you do?
- date until you go even if letting go will hurt45% (5)50% (2)47% (7)Vote
- don't date so you won't be super hurt in 4 months55% (6)50% (2)53% (8)Vote
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It's worth it. The hurt is only as strong as the happiness you gained from it. And with time you will remember the happiness but not the hurt0