Whenever my boyfriend and I cuddle ( wrapped in his arms, sometimes my hand on his thigh), I always wonder if he actually gets turned on by it. He likes to rub my side, and sometimes his breathing gets heavy. He always wants to cuddle. (No inappropriate touching on private parts) Is he enjoying that? And would it turn him on?
Also, when we do, I usually wear one of his shirts (and my pants) with no bra. Would that be a turn on for him to feel as I'm up close to him?
Intimacy is always a turn on for me. That being said, cuddling is kind of not my thing. If she's cuddling to cuddle then that just doesn't get me going, sometimes she cuddles to get me going, but it's very different when she does this, subtle but different.