Anyone who has a controlling personality needs to be avoided. Everyone has the right to express who they are and not feel as if they are and will only be accepted if they accept change, which can often be forced upon them, x
It depends on what needs changing. Maybe it was for the better of the one who you are trying to help change. If so then it's good, I would want my girlfriend to try to help me to change if I had a problem that would be very beneficial for me/us. If it was something that was not benifical for me and she wanted me to then no, or most likely no.
Not the ultimate deal breaker but super annoying none the less. I'm not a go back kind of guy; when the relationship is over it's over for good. Sure we can be occasional friends, chat every now and then, but the whole romantic aspect is gone.
Everyone around me tried changing me into something I'm not. Ultimately, I got pissed and now I just play League of Legends all day. I don't think it would be wise to get back together with someone who doesn't appreciate you the way you are.
I wouldn't say it's an ultimate deal breaker but I wouldn't appreciate it. If someone can't accept me for the way I am then I would wonder why they wanted to be with me in the first place. Similarly, I would never try to "change" a guy I'm dating. If I'm with someone, it's because I like them, get along with them, and we have things in common. I wouldn't go into a relationship with the mindset of, "this person is broken and I must fix them." So, as for your original question, no, I probably wouldn't get back together with them if they treated me as some "broken thing" that needs changing.
Not at all. In most cases, their only intention is to help. If it feels wrong, he is unable to persuade me even a little, or we simply aren't on the same page, I'd ask my SO to give me some space and time to think about it. I may even ask a few friends about their opinions to see if I really need change or not. You should not be forced to do anything, especially if you feel uncomfortable about it. And if your SO cannot sense that you are uncomfortable, or does sense it but does not seem to care, you need to stand up for yourself.
no, you need to know your partner loves you for who you are and if they try to change you then how can you ever feel comfortable around them... you would just sit there thinking 'am i doing something wrong' or 'is he having second thoughts'. My ex was like that, always tryna change me and i wouldn't get back with him.
That's just a no no and trying to change someone into something they're not and trying to help you improve honestly. those are 2 different things. You should always be able to be yourself and if someone is trying to make you change who you are then that's not good. They don't accept you for who you are
I wouldn't. If a person dates you, this person should be accepting you for who you are, not want to "fix" you. Some people may try to, but it never usually works, especially if the person doesn't want to be fixed in the first place.