- I want the guy to pay for everything.Vote A
- I want to split the bill all the time.Vote B
- Sometimes I pay sometimes he pays sometimes split the bill.Vote C
- I'm a guy/see results.Vote D
Most Helpful Girl
I really don't like or endorse bill splitting amongst a couple but feel that cost should be split more or less evenly in a relationship.
If my guy makes far less than me I'm going to end up paying more because I suggest expensive places to go then pay. But if he plans an expensive date and expects me to pay that is BS. Same holds for a guy that makes more whatever dates I suggest I pay but I somehow end up taking him to nice places and he takes me to none. The only sit down dinner my ex of 4 months paid for was when he met my friends and because I didn't offer to pay on purpose after paying for two dinners out one of which was over $200. 😔
It isn't the money that upset me at all but the intention behind it. If a guy is poor and can't pay fine but if he makes more than me and doesn't try it breaks my heart if I like him. Esp orally considering he is a good cook and makes sushi but never cooked for me. I made him Coq Au Vin and the groceries for the meal were over $100 plus time and effort.
I just think you have to find what works for you. I've got a yoga body, smarts and money plus I loved this guy to death. But I guess I wasn't working for him enough to put forth any effort. Some people aren't used to being treated well I guess. He treated his exes way better than me even though they weren't as pretty and insulted him all the time. So frustrating.0