I'll try to keep it short and concise... I just turned 25 about a month ago. To this day I've never had a relationship of any length... ever. I went on a "date" last year with a chick, but that was it.
I am honestly unsure about my looks, I don't even know if that matters to women much. I'm also a pretty nice guy. I don't cuss peope out when they make me mad, and I abhore conflict. I'm 5 ft 9 in tall and weigh about 180 lbs, not too flabby either.
I have some social anxiety, and according to some I have issues with confidence. Not surprising because I take a lot of things very hard. Almost everyone I talk to is a guy, because I'm more comfortable with them. Oh and let me point out that I'm 100% straight. :P
I just began attending a University, and there's loads of women everywhere. Its much easier to talk to them here though. My hometown is a very difficult (impossible) place to meet people.
I've asked some chicks out every once in a blue moon when someone comes along whom I find attractive; and have a chance to converse with. Since school began roughly a month ago I've asked four women for their phone numbers, to varying degrees of success.
Almost never do I ever leave my "comfort zone" to talk to a woman, but that's becoming easier now that I'm here!
I am admittedly kind of shallow though, too.
I guess the reason question is what am I doing wrong and how can I fix it?
If you want other details, just ask.
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You seem so sweet! Confidence is key, but you seem like a nice guy so just wait and a girl will come a long who knows how special you are:)1