I would like female opinions on this. Say you really want to hang out with a guy or spend some time with him.. Would you expect him to take the initiative to come to you or would you state what you wanted and take the initiative? Or would you ask him to come to you if you were free?
- I'd ask him to come to meVote A
- I'd just expect him to come to meVote B
- I'd totally go to himVote C
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I'd prefer it if I go to him and he shows he is ok with being receptive rather than trying to control eveeything... I find it hot when guys don't feel the need to be " macho". More importantly asking a guy out is like my litmus test. If he plays games or skirts around it or tries to out the ball in his court instead of just responding then I'm out. Good riddance. I'd rather fimd that out in the beginning the waste time.
Course if he gets to me first and I'm interested I'm not going to be like" no I want to ask you instead " ) it's just a preference it's not immutable. :-)1