Might sound dumb, but met this guy online and we're going to the movies and possibly dinner tomorrow night after I work. Now, I've ONLY been with my ex, and we dated almost 5 years, and its been a little over 7 months since he left, so I am I guess kinda new at dating I guess so kind of unsure on what to do I guess. And I know its kind of scary since I met this guy online, but I met my ex online and I talked to 2 other guys before this new one, one turned out to be a jerk and the other just didn't click but I never met them in person. I have this guys MySpace and Facebook and friends and family have checked on him, lol. I've been talking to him for at least 2 weeks now and we have almost everything in common, so we pretty much clicked right away. But again, I've only been with one guy and for almost 5 years so any tips on 1st dates hehe? I am a shy person, tho online I talk but I know ill probably be quiet at 1st with him, like I was when I 1st met my ex. So yeah, gimme tips I guess hehe, even if my question may sound kinda dumb lol.
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The bummer about a movie date is you don't get to talk and get to know each other so it is not my idea of a good first date idea.
Anyways, I think guys need a chance to shine and show who they are and I find giving a guy the floor to talk is a good idea. He should ask you questions as well and you should answer but don't dominate the conversation or over answer. Other than that, try to remember it is a first date, a chance to meet and have fun too, so keep it light. Don't ask or get into a bunch of questions about your plans for the future, past dating experiences or the dreaded "How are you finding this online dating thing?". Total romance killer.0