I am a 22 year old Chinese male. There was a cute Asian (Chinese) girl (age 21) who I met in class. We had a great conversation after class and she was very engaging in the conversation. Today, she messaged me that she have dropped out of that class. I was heartbroken because I was looking forward to develop closer romantic relationship with her. In order to ask her out on a date, I would need to develop our relationship and get a bit more comfortable. I wanted to ask, how can I develop closer relationship with her especially if I am no longer able to see her at a regular basis? How long should I know her before asking her out on a date?
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You got it backwards. Getting closer will only lessen your chances of her agreeing to go on a date with you. The optimal time to ask for a date is within a week or two of meeting a girl. It depends on the circumstance.
You Chinese-American right? The culture might be different in China but this is what I recommend:
Call her. You can make chit chat about stuff before, but after a few minutes, bring up the class. Tell her it's okay, she'll make the class up in the future. Then say, "I'll be sad to not see you in class anymore, but that doesn't have to be goodbye. I think you're cute, and I'd like to take you out on a little date."
She will of course happily accept your invitation. You know how I know?
She talks to you after class. She gave you her phone number. She replies to your texts. She picks up the phone when you call her.
You're golden. Don't fuck this up. Ask her out on a date.
Hit me up after she says yes so I can give you some dating advice.2
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