well I went on my date on sat night and it went well. At the end of it he asked me if I wanted to do it again and I said yeah if he did. And he said yeah definitely lets do bowling it's more active lol. So we have been speaking every night since then. But what I am wondering is... is he sure about me or is he having the second date to find out if he sure. Is a second date a good sign and how many dates do I have afore I know if he wants a relationship?
Thanks guys and gals... he told me he thought I was nice and easy to get on with and down to earth. So I suppose that's a nice thing. I do like him and would love a relationship with him but I just wanna know if he feels the same. He said I passed stage 1 successfully which I was pleased about. I just wanna know if he can see this going anywhere. We have spoke for a full month everyday and it is big txts and we speak on the phone. Fingers crossed :-)
You can't know for sure if you want a relationship with a person on the first date, unless you've known that person for quite some time before dating. If he wants to see you again it's because he is interested in getting to know you.
Best advice I can give is dont rush it and dont worry, if he likes you he will make it offical, but if you push it you might come off as pushy or just not chill. act chill basically, fake it till you make it girl!