I'm over hearing about the same complaints because most of them guys know what they need to do to get over it, but i also think seeing those questions gives me hope in the men that aren't trying to be this macho shit. it's great to be able to spot a guy that says he wants to b bad, but everything else indicates otherwise.
Omg yes. 90% of the people who obsess over this dichotomy are often single and are even more often ass holes themselves. Tho they sweaarrrr they're nice, and think that because they're nice, they deserve sex.
Fun fact: no one deserves sex. You are not entitled to anyone's body. Everrrr
People aren't rejecting you because you're nice, they're rejecting you because they don't like YOU as a person. 😤 Change yourself or cry me a river, already.