I am 25 and have been in a serious relationship for a year. We have had an amazing relationship. I don't know if it is me over thinking the situation so please help! We haven't had sex in 2 weeks, which is very rare, usually it is 3-5 times a week. I have initiated it MANY times and was told no, he was too tired. Usually he texts me often throughout the day, now he only texts me once a day, and I am the one who texts first. I haven't dated many guys because I have been in serious long term relationships. I asked him if everything is ok, because he seems distant and ignored that text. What should I do?
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He didn't respond to the text you sent asking him if everything is ok...this means something is not ok. Before the relationship takes a deeper plunge you are going to have to PULL BACK. I agree with nikkijoe616's answer. Do not text him unless he texts you first. Do not call him unless he calls you. Same thing happened to me...my guy stopped having sex then broke up with me several weeks later. And, I saw on Ebay during that time he wasn't having sex with me, he had ordered and received porn magazines. Porn really screws up a guys head. Not saything that this is what your guy is doing. I wish I had taken the nikkijoe steps but I did not and the relationship waned a slow dying death.0