Does it bother you or is it just an observation? It could be partly that there is a popular fetish for certain types of people. Asian girls, Blonde white girls and black men are quite fetishized i believe in porn and maybe the media? I am just guessing tho. This is not something i see often
I think a lot of that has to do with guys of all races going crazy over them. So basically, guys of other races pursue them and ask them out a lot more. There were three blondes in my junior class and all three dated guys who were black, hispanic because none of the white dudes asked them out. I didn't think those girls were my type as they were really annoying and liked to complain a lot. But two of three had crushes on me because there friends told me so and im white. I honestly think that they get so many non white dudes asking them out that they spend a lot of time dating them but its all good.
I'm thinking it is because she is attracted to someone who is opposite of her. I also imagine that guys of other races are attracted to blonde girls. As a blonde girl, I am usually attracted more to white guys, and have only ended up dating white guys. However, I have been interested in guys of other races too.
In America there are mixed couples everywhere. It's not uncommon to see. A lot of women ( blonde/white or anything else) date men they like and find attractive so obviously these white women find these black and hispanic men attractive. There's more to people than just appearances.
I have a couple of possibilities why this may happen: The men of color are probably the ones who are confident enough to approach them The white women like those guys so they pursue them Maybe they want to piss their daddy or mommy off the white girls find the men of color fun and interesting Maybe it's a phase
its just who they like.
Well my close friend is blonde, blue eyed and married a blond blue eyed guy... they have a blonde blue eyed baby boy. Is she one of the few exceptions? I'm not sure, I really don't pay attention, tbh.
Two, there seem to be a lot of stereotypes going around with people. Take these for example:
- "White girls are some of the prettiest and most feminine girls out there." - "White people are the most uncultured and boring race out there." - "Blacks are tough, have more soul, and have larger equipment"
Ergo, white girls will look for the "real men" who are black, and white guys will avoid the "confrontational, aggressive" black women, instead going for the more stereotypically feminine whites or east Asians.
Obviously that's not how it works in most cases, but that's how things like the media and TV tropes run things. I would imagine that IRL, the main effect black stereotypes would have is if a white girl is expecting a black guy to fit the stereotype, and then discover he is a big softy at heart.