I was dating a really nice guy...He broke up with me through a text message...Why do people do that.? why not face to face?
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Why do they do that? It is easier not to face the reality that they may be hurting someone's feelings. They would rather not think of it. What they do not realize that it hurts worse than a conversation. It happened to me once and made me feel like I was not a human being entitled to express my feelings. Horrible. I am making it a point right from the get go with my next relationship to tell the person I don't have text messaging (even though I do.) It is too impersonal. Could you imagine not texting? It means the guy who is interested in you HAS to call instead. Much much better to create a stronger healthier bond I think. But that is just my opinion...old school.0