So me and my guy have been going out a few months. He is very humerous and I do love that about him, but sometimes he can cross the line. A few nights ago we were on the phone and he was scrolling on Facebook. He always does this thing where he says "ayyy" for anything. So he said it and I said "what happened" and he said "oh this girl was shaking her ass" I didn't know whether to laugh because I am a very conservative girl. (We haven't had sex). So I got upset and said "why do you always say gross stuff like that? And he said "why are you making a big deal? It was a joke".. So yeah it stemmed from there. Am I overreacting? This isn't the first time and when I told him I don't like it he said well that's the way i joke. Let me know thanks.
Most Helpful Guy
That's something that will never change so you have a decision to make if its a deal breaker or not1
Most Helpful Girl
If that's the way he jokes, then that's the way he jokes. I suggest finding someone who fits your conservative lifestyle instead of asking him to censor himself as a person.1