Most guys would date a woman regardless of her financial situation, even if she didn't have a car or was unemployed as long as she was the right person. Yet most women still won't date a guy unless he has a certain amount of cash. Even the ones who say "I make my own money and don't need a guy to pay for everything", they still would never date a guy unless he was financially stable and owned a car.
This totally sucks in an age where women want equal pay, but won't pay for anything for the guys.
Yes it sucks
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No I like getting free meals and men deserve to pay
second, #generalisation261 please dont act like u know how 'most' women think ok? we're not all the same. u have NO IDEA what kind of guy we'd date. you have NO IDEA whether or not we'd pay, let him pay or split the bill. u have NO IDEA whether or not we'd get with him if he does or doesn't have a car.
you can guess. you can't try to understand, but you still have no idea. continue with this mindset and u will never end up with a woman, because all ur doing is making assumptions before u get to know the damn girl.
I prefer if I pay my own way, and he pays his. Even when I was in a relationship, unless my boyfriend surprised me by pre-paying for everything. Then I would plan something special and pay for him next time.
I guess it depends on the type of woman you are looking to date. I did date a guy with no job, no car, and was living with his mom. I tried, but he had no ambition to ever look for work and just masturbated all day. Sorry, that is a deal breaker for me.
It's not a double standard. It's a trade. Guys desire a woman with good looks. Women desire men with stable income. Thus, essentially, you are investing or "leasing" (dating) for a woman's looks with your money.