Should I find out if he likes her?

Ok so long story but basically I have been seeing my close friend.
We have been sleeping with each other (cuddling & occassionally sex) every night for the last few months.
He isn't ready for a relationship & I am leaving anwyay, but it has been nice.
At one point he said he liked me but he has pulled back a bit since then
Then he started just having sex with another girl. It annoyed me but he knows this.
She recently had sex with someone else & he got annoyed.
He said he would if i did too but i'm curious to know if he likes her.
I want to know because if he does then i want to end things because i don't want to get hurt about him having feelings for someone else, i like being number 1.
He's also been a bit cute to me these last few days...
Should I send this message/ask in person:

"I only ask this because I know you got annoyed about the *other guys name* thing, but do you have feelings for *other girl*?"

If he says yes i want to say:

"Ok, I need to stop this then.
You used to like me, but now I’m just feeling foolish
Thanks for everything x"


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What Guys Said 1

  • "We have been sleeping with each other (cuddling & occassionally sex) every night for the last few months."

    ^so it means u r like friends with benefits actually i'd say... ;)

    "He isn't ready for a relationship & I am leaving anwyay, but it has been nice."

    ^but he's ok wid just cuddlin & sex.. right?

    "At one point he said he liked me but he has pulled back a bit since then
    Then he started just having sex with another girl."

    ^i see... it means he's not seein u seriously if he's seein other gals meanwhile... and he's not dedicated to u... :)

    "She recently had sex with someone else & he got annoyed."

    ^if he got annoyed... it means he's carin more about her than u i'm afraid... possibly he wants u just for sex... :|

    "He said he would if i did too but i'm curious to know if he likes her."

    ^so he says... u'll learn how he'll react once it happens... of course i'm not sayin u'd do it... ;)

    "I want to know because if he does then i want to end things because i don't want to get hurt about him having feelings for someone else, i like being number 1."

    ^basically u r #2 as it seems...

    ""I only ask this because I know you got annoyed about the *other guys name* thing, but do you have feelings for *other girl*?""

    ^i doubt he'd answer honestly... but i told u already above... ;)

    so...

    ""Ok, I need to stop this then.
    You used to like me, but now I’m just feeling foolish
    Thanks for everything x""

    ^u can tell him dis... :)

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