I am just curious, I just read a mytake on the subject and it has made me wonder why women dont ask men out. And it also made me wonder how many other guys have never been asked out by a girl (I know I have never been asked out by a girl). So I am trying to do 2 different questions in here. If you are a girl, I would like to know what your reason is for not asking guys out. If you are a guy, I am wondering how many girls have asked you out in your life.
- Girls: The guy should ask me outVote A
- Girls: I am too scared, or shyVote B
- Girls: Its weird for me to ask a guy outVote C
- Girls: Other (explain below)Vote D
- Guys: Yes I have been asked out by more then 3 girlsVote E
- Guys: Yes I have been asked out by a couple girlsVote F
- Guys: No I have never been asked out by a girlVote G
Most Helpful Girl
I have never really thought about who should ask who out. If I want to go on a date with a guy, I ask him. If it so happens he asks me first, that's fine too. I don't know why people give it so much thought and attention. I just go with my feelings. I guess it's back to the whole 'need to be desired' thing, I'm confident enough in myself that I don't need the approval of someone making the first move to feel desired.
That said, I don't know why it's thought of as particularly ballsy and courageous for a girl to make the first move. Sure, it's great when a girl knows what she wants and isn't afraid to get it but it's also great if you're a guy who isn't afraid. Gender shouldn't be a factor in this.
I think it's quite sad for people to think negatively about girls asking guys out. If a guy says no after asking them out, that's their call and completely up to them - but as a girl, I should be able to ask someone out if I want to, regardless of the outcome. It's unfair to be waiting for a guy who may or may not ask you out. Life's too short to sit around and ponder. I'd rather skip the bullshit and hard-to-get antics because if two people like each other it should be simple.0
Most Helpful Guy
I would like to be asked out by a girl ;)2