I have been dating this guy for 3 years. In the beginning he was quite paranoid asking for my password facebook and Gmail almost blackmailing me. That phase luckily passed and we had the most amazing relationship since. All till he was about to go study abroad. He got cold and distant.. not bothered about anything about us any longer. No love talks anything, didn't fight with me even when I did not call for like the whole day. Said was busy. Since he moved abroad, he has almost completely cut communication. Calls almost twice a week and makes the call appear like an obligation for my sake. On confrontation, he says he is busy and I should stop thinking about all this and focus on my studies. he says he is busy but is online all day. after a rather longish rare Skype call I broke down and asked him of he was cheating on me which obviously he denied. I casually asked for his facebook password and he turned brutal with words. I know I do not trust him and I cannot handle his behaviour but the thought of the break up which I suppose is just a matter of cutting contact, I cannot think of a way to survive it. I'm completely emotionally dependent on him a nd every time I say we shud take a break, he says he is fine with it. When I cannot get a grip over myself and crawl back, he talks fine but is not warm.. not even close to when he was back here. I am an emotional mess right now. bordering on depression.. taking sedatives to sleep.. please help...
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I think you should reach out to psychologist or some other form of mental health counsellor right now because you sound as if you are beyond the point where any piece of advice someone on the internet gives you will help. I also think you should break up with him and focus on developing your social circle where you are.1