So I've been on a couple of dates with a guy who is shy, I do no he likes me cause we have kissed before and he seems to relax more once this has happened lol I don't like playing games and I don't like not expecting him to intitiate things all the time either but I feel like I am because he is quite shy. He is a couple years younger than me to and hadn't been on a date in a few years so he says so I have took that into consideration. He messaged me when we get home after our date and then it was just a bit of general chit chat. I was the last person who responded to him on whatsapp. I haven't heard from him since last Thursday, and we did agree on meeting again and he said that the feeling was mutual. I just feel that it is a two way thing but I don't feel like I should always be the one messaging. Do you think he's actually interested or just shy and has a bad way of showing it lol? Or Shall I leave it until he messages me and if he doesn't take the hint? Or maybe I should message him this Thursday cause then that's been a week? Advice please? Thanks :)
How long shall I wait to text a shy guy I'm dating?
What Guys Said 1
Honestly, just text him whenever you'd like, if you feel it then go for it.0
What Girls Said 1
This is my life problem at the moment haha. Meh, send him a text. Just one though. And not about meeting up but just saying hello, and a quick fact about yourself. Don't ask about him. When he replies, reply double the length of time it took him to reply.
I normally would say just go for it and ask him sometimes you gotta make stuff happen, but somehow I've ruined a potential relationship by being "too available" and not giving him a chase. I don't like games either but I'm starting to think maybe sometimes we have to play them..0
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