We just started dating this week. He asked me to be his lady and I happily said yes. So we made it clear we are in a relationship but it's still very new.
We just had sex over the weekend after spending Saturday and half the day Sunday together. However its now Monday afternoon and I haven't heard from him yet. We do work opposite schedules - he works early mornings and doesn't get off til 3 and I work night shift and don't get off til 1am. That's understandable but he hasn't texted or called. It takes 5 seconds to stay in touch through text and I know he's been on Facebook, not to mention gets a break at work.
This is making me feel upset, anxious and insecure.
3 days ago he told me that he always texts first and wanted to see if I'd text first (which I did) but isn't he playing games? I don't mind texting him first but I don't want to if he is bored or just using me. If he's not really into me like he says he is then I can just break up with him.
Most Helpful Guy
Everything is so fresh, I would say you are worrying over nothing right now.2
Most Helpful Girl
My golden rule. Never send more than 2 texts without a reply. Don't mention that he hasn't replied, clinginess will put him off. I understand the stresses of not being text back, currently I haven't been text back for like 7 hours. I'm just trying to keep my mind off it. Essentially it is playing games but he could be really busy, or can't think of anything to say, or doesn't feel like talking right now1