Its been a really tough couple of years. Trying to get myself back on track. Nice guy has asked me out on a date. I'm just not sure how much I can give - commitment wise and physically. Not sure about the whole thing. Am I being unfair by giving false hope or is it unfair to close it down straight away? We also work together and it feels like the entire world now knows which is added pressure. I want to be honest but in the past when I've tried to explain I'm not sure what I can give guys always take it the wrong way. I don;t want to give details as to why so I understand why they end up confused. The last thing I want to do is muck anyone about. Help!!
- Say yes and see how it goesVote A
- Don't waste his timeVote B
Most Helpful Guy
If you're not sure, then I would say go out with him.
However, it kind of sounds like you're sure you're not into him, but you're feeling pressure from other people or you don't want to hurt him (or possibly both). Am I correct?
On a percentage scale from zero to a hundred (hundred percent being absolutely certain you want to go out with this guy) where do you stand?0
Most Helpful Girl
You know what, just go. You might have a good time. It could also be awful for the both of you, but you won't know unless you go.1