Years ago, as a preteen I was sexually assaulted. At first I didn't think it it affected me much. But I just messed up a potential relationship. I don't like my wrists or waist being touched. This guy I like tried to snuggle with an arm across my chest and I wouldn't say I had a flash back but all I could think about was that claustrophobic feeling I had when I was assaulted. When he kissed me, I started to shake and was overly nervous since this was the first kiss I'd had since I was assulted. I didn't feel comfortable telling this guy why I didn't like all the contact, now I feel like I'm losing him. At the same time I don't want to dump all these damaged goods on him. Besides, I think he's already set his sights on another girl.
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Perhaps you should try to relax and let someone love you like you deserve.
I feel like if you trust him, you should tell him. If he is worth it, he will stay.0