Ok trying to keep this short as possible, I met a guy and we started to date and we first met in summer and now im back in college which is like a 2 hr drive from his place and he has come to see me a few times and weve been talking for 2 months. the most recent time he came, everything felt perfect. We made future plans, agreed for me to drive and see him the day after. Since the beginning him and I never texted much or had much communication between dates but aftr the last time i figured shit would be a little different.. i dont know how to describe vibes but the last 2 times him and i were definitely opening up and getting closer. so one drunk night I got fed up with his lack of communication and sent him a "fuck you" message. he had initiated conversation and stopped responding so i sent 2 and got no response then i sent the fuck you. the next day when he was sober he opend 2 of my messages and not the last one and in hopes of him not being able to open it, i blocked him just for that purpose. I messaged him to say sorry for the message and he said it was cool and asked if i was ok and i responded and he IGNORED IT. sooooooo he has yet to readd me on our messaging app
did i fuck up or what bc his communication style contradicts us physically together
please help me :(
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah I think you messed up by sending him that f u text. If he is not mad at you he may respond back. I can understand you was mad but sometimes you have to careful how you get your point across. If he still cares he might respond back to you.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you fucked up depends on him and on how sensitive he is about a thing like that... leave it up to him to mantain contact now, you already sent a message, now wait.
BUT If I was him, and you sent me a fuck you, well, that would have been it. I would be done with you. I do not tolerate a "fuck you" from anyone, much less from someone I have just started to date. But that's just me.0