Okay so first off I'm 14. I have never been in a relationship and me and this guy have been talking a lot. At first it was a little bit of harmless flirting then we met in person (cause he lives just in the next town) and now we flirt a lot I mean we both obviously like eachother no doubt about it. He has gave me reason to think he is going to ask me out this Friday when we see each other and how should I react? Should I just say yes? And should I not say it in an excited way? And after he asks as we are hanging out how should we act? I haven't even hugged the guy so should I after I say yes maybe? I'm just going crazy right now! I don't know if this matters but our flirting is like he calls me beautiful and I will call him handsome or he will call me cutie and when we went to the movies last weekend he would hold open the door for me. Like I said I don't know if that matters but just in case.
Most Helpful Guy
T. V. and the news has conditioned us all to have all these preconceptions about life and how we should react and act. Don't worry about it.
Just be genuine and a good communicator. You can tell him that thinking about this made you a bit nervous (even in the good way) but you don't need to do the pretend excitement. it often comes across as fake.
Any relationship is what you make of it. If he is a guy who is good enough to listen and communicate back you both can discover what you both want out of the relationship (even at 14).
P. s. this doesn't mean you can't put your best foot forward (clothing, posture, attitude etc) but it still needs to come across as sincere. Hope this helps1
Most Helpful Girl
Be cool and casual about it. Not too excited but not to nonchalant either. Don't overthink. Just go with the flowww1