My ex boyfriend and I had an argument the other day over the fact that he wasn't getting any sex. I'm still a virgin and wanted to wait a bit more until I was ready. We had only been dating a bit over a month.
Whenever I asked him what we should do next (whether we were breaking up or not), he told me he didn't know and tried dodging the question. I asked him 3 times whether we should break up or not and he would try and ignore the question.
At the end he said he really liked me and that he wished he didn't have to break up with me. He wished that I hadn't been a virgin because he doesn't want to hurt me in any way.
Why was he dodging my question when I asked him where we stood and whether we should break up?
Most Helpful Guy
Because he is unsure of his own feelings, he needs more time, or there is another girl.1
Most Helpful Girl
He's not sure what he wants to do. He wants sex, and needs sex by the sounds of it, but he loves you and doesn't want to let you go.
He's conflicted. But honestly, if the guy can't handle you being a virgin, then he isn't the right guy for you. Don't give it up to him just to keep him. You two have only been together for a little over a month. That's hardly a long time to wait.
My current boyfriend waited 4 months before we had sex. And we both had sex with other people before we got together. He just wanted to take things slow and I respected that.
You need to find a guy who can respect your beliefs. It might be hard, but sex isn't everything. If he truly loves you, he will wait until you are ready :)1