she told me, that if I wanted to do anything, like my freinds are that I have to ask. ill have my liscense next year, i can drive myself places and not listen to their bitching everywhere i go.
some of my friends recently went on birth control, and here's me- never dated, or anything. my friends stated dating in like gradeschool. wtf and wgat even. they also joke how im going to be the kid whose parents are too strict, and becaseu of it, end up doing the worst things @ parties. im on the verge of telling my parents that id like 2 go live with my sister. like 4 real. i hate them. they hate me. wtt and ho am i supposed to live with them for the next 3 yrs?
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"she told me, that if I wanted to do anything, like my friends are that I have to ask. I'll have my license next year, I can drive myself places and not listen to their bitching everywhere I go. " There's no doubt in my mind that you'll be 1 of those girls who're 18+ with 2 kids and an STD #MarkMyWords
Because you seem to be a little #HOE waiting to be let #LOOSE in society to me. And the only thing that is holding you back from doing just that (escaping) right now is your parents IMHO.
Ya know because they're kinda like the #chains who're bounding you to the ground ( the "their house, their rules thing") for dear life. Since they don't want to see you ruin your life via being 16+ and pregnant by some young punk ^_^
But you don't care I'm guessing which is the main reason why you want to move with your sister right now. Since she'll give you the freedom to do as you, please. Since I'm guessing that she just doesn't give 1 fuck about you. So not only could you pop out babies like a Pez dispenser over there... but there would also be nobody to keep you line HAHAHA #SMH
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Okay first of all, dont hate your parents because they won't let you date, thats crazy. Think of all they have sacrificed for you and the love they give and the good times that you guys have had together. If you want to date, you need to be mature about it. When I started dating my now ex I told my mom about it and we had a mature conversation when things became more invovled with my ex and I about birth control. My ex and I never ended up having sex but my mom took me to the gynocologist and I was put on birth control. My mom did not like that I (used to) curse a lot and I told her "I dont drink, I dont do drugs, and I get good grades, whats the harm?". If you mention all the good things you do and all the bad things you dont do that might persuade them. And if your "friends" make fun of you or pressure you like that they are not your friends. Just try to see where your parents are coming from. I did start dating until i was a month away from 16 (almost 17 now) and thats pretty much the normal age so dont let your friends make you feel like you're lame or such. And even if you do get your liscence, your parents still have the right to tell you what to do within reason. If you want more freedom my suggestion is take on more responsibility and try to speak maturly about it to your parents. Like start doing more chores, maybe pick up some extra cirrculars, apply for jobs, make good grades, and so on and so forth.0