I like this one guy and so does this other girl and he likes both of us. I know this because he has told both of us that he likes us and when I was talking to her and a friend of the guy he said to her " ___ is also ____'s girl so you've got some competition" (or something along those lines). The confusing part is all 3 of us work together and I don't know how to handle this situation. I like the guy but I don't want to do be on bad terms with either of them since we have to get along since we work together. Tomorrow night I work with both of them. This is so confusing... what do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I feel like you should not be a possible second choice. It is possible he is simply trying to get you jealous so you will date him, but even if that is true, that's a mind game you want to avoid. I have a general rule when it comes to dating: you are not a second choice. This is more so applied when there is a choice between you and someone else. If they even have to think about it, I'm out. It sounds a little heartless, but so is their decision in not picking you.0
Most Helpful Girl
In my opinion if a guy truly likes he wouldn't have to think twice he would just go for you. So maybe just let it go u can find someone better that will like twoce as much.😉😊0