Ok. So I met this guy (On line, I prefer dating that way so you can at least know the person and get a feel of their personality before meeting) Anyway, we've hung out only twice but the second night he pretty much made it clear that he was into me and even wanted to meet my kids. And that's all great and I really liked him saying that. Here's why I'm here. The very next morning ( I stayed the night) he was a little anxious (he even admitted it because we were both running late to work) but he gave me some bars for breakfast which I thought was nice and I left. Then he texted me asking how efficient my birth control was. So this was like a 180 degree to me. So I texted him saying I protect myself because I DONT want any babies. Then I expressed how I thought he was acting shady from night to day type of mood change. He apologized and said he didn't mean to come across in that manner. Long story short, it's like I don't hear from him all day (well he sent a pic of his neck since I... messed it up hint hint ;) ) lol until 1045PM he sends me a video. So I didn't respond til this morning followed by a good morning w/ a kiss. He responds good morning w/ a smiley face. Even when we first met he wasn't too much of a texter so maybe that can explain why he doesn't text me "hello" every once in awhile. But for him to revert with a smiley face? (He reverted once w/ a kiss back) I feel like I'm wasting my time already. I'm not going to contact him anymore but what if he text me again? I just feel like.. he's full of shit. Any advice or insight? Am I over analyzing? Being smart by seeing the red flags? please.
Most Helpful Guy
I would go with your gut feeling on this one.0
Most Helpful Girl
Goodness, you'll drive yourself insane at this rate!
Slow down, deep breath. Wait for him to make the next move. I don't see anything to panic about here.2