For me personally no but that is because I absolutely adore kids. My job is working with children so when i do decide to enter into a relationship one day (i have no urge to be in a relationship anytime soon as i feel i am still too young) i want to be fully committed and fully ready for a relationship. This means that when i am in a relationship later on in life i am dating for the purpose of marriage and not just to be dating someone and for me having kids one day is a must and so realistically speaking i do not think things will work out well if i am with someone who doesn't share the same belief. If you, however, do not take relationships seriously and know this person is not the right person for you and you will end the relationship some day (meaning you like kids/ and want kids) then go for it, everyone is different.
Doesn't want themselves or actually doesn't like? I mean I don't have a strong desire to have children, I don't think I'd make a very good father and I'd likely pass on my autism to them which is not desirable, but I would have children if my partner wants to have them. That being said, if she doesn't like children at all I'd wonder if she has a stone instead of a heart. Come on, who doesn't like children? I get it, they can be annoying and scream and shit, but they're just so cute and they can be really sweet. We've all been children as well.
Haha, I can't. I have a sweet 10 year old. She doesn't meet anyone until I am deep in a relationship, but I make sure they know about her from day one. I also let the guy know I can financially care for her and am not looking for a father for her; she has one already. There is no drama from him, we are quite friendly. My relationships need to be on board; I don't expect them to Love her like I do, but I do expect them to be respectful of her place in my heart.
Not liking kids does not mean the person hates kids. Personally I am not sure if I want kids but kids can be annoying and I think some women and men want kids for the wrong reasons because they think they will always have a cute little toddler that may resemble them. But here is the thing. Kids grow up and change they develop their own personality and path. I'm not looking to date right now but this is why I think it's important to know what a person wants from their life before they start dating
Well depends how he likes kids in this day and age...
But, to answer your question, yes. I am right now. Even though I want children myself, I have to agree, I dislike other people's kids on the whole. They let them act like animals and the parents aren't much better themselves. I want to have children and raise them properly, not hooligans.
Yeah I'm honestly not a big fan of them either (that might change in the future?) so I wouldn't have a problem with that - I couldn't date anyone who has a problem with animals though since I have a dog and if my dog doesn't like the potential partner it's just not gonna work lol 🐶🐾
Yea, I would date someone who didn't like kid. But they would need to get over it and one day want a child. Because I want to raise a child. So, that would be a deal breaker for me if that person never wanted children.
I think that it depends. I like MOST children. I can't help but dislike the bad trouble makers (you know the ones- the ones that try to light the cat's or dogs tail with a lighter when you are not looking, or teasing the elderly neighbours next door. ( even through you have explained countless times that it is mean!)
No, I wouldn't date someone like that. It's fine if he is easily annoyed by kids, but to not like kids in general, that's too much. I want someone who knows how to treat kids and is tender towards them because that's so freaking cute.
I don't want kids, and I would be ok if I never had to interact with one again, so I suppose it would be fine. However, if this person was actively engaged in child hate, then I think that would be a little bit of a red flag. I mean, I may not want kids or particularly like them, but I would still be kind to them and I am amused by some... I just don't care for them overall.
SO I guess if they were actively engaged in their dislike I would shy away from such a person but if they just didn't care for and want kids but still treated them like as a decent human, then I would be down to date such a person.
I absolutely loooovee kids, I'd really like to have kids later, that would be soo awesome. Imagine, tiny little humans running through your house, seems so adorable <3 You can learn them cool stuff, play with them, have fun with them :) Why would anyone hate such little beings? They're the future
I'd have to say no. Kids aren't perfect, but neither are adults. I'm usually around kids when I'm not working and at family gatherings. I don't have any kids of my own (yet), but whoever I date shouldn't hate them.
Yes, I would do it, but I wouldn't marry her, because I want to marry a woman who like to have kids with me, but I wouldn't date a woman who has kids, unless she is widow and I have a close relationship with her kids.
No. Because I wouldn't date someone looking at present. I'll date only when I'm looking for long term thing. In long term plans, I want to have kids. Also, I feel that people who doesn't like kids have something missing in their emotions department.
No. I tend to find that such people are generally selfish or otherwise have some kind of fatal personality flaw.