Anyone knows how I can do this in a better way?
The problem is my friend set me up on a date with someone I really don't find physically attracted and we're very incompatible in several areas. It's now been nearly 15 days being introduced to him and he's getting more interested. I've been trying to say I'm busy but that's not working.
I don't really want to date him. I only see him as just a friend. I always have trouble with not really being straight forward just to be nice.
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I think the answer is implied in your last sentence "I always have trouble with not really being straight forward just to be nice." , that means, you DO need to be straight forward. You can still be nice while being straight forward, meaning that you don't need to be rude, just politely say you're honestly not interested in him as a date, but as a friend.
Of course he's not going to like hearing that, because nobody likes to be rejected, but you can't avoid that. And to reject someone doesn't mean you're being disrespectful, it just means you're choosing. That's what dating is about.2