I have been dating this cute and lovely girl for ONLY 2 weeks. But the thing is that we are so different and almost the opposite. I am a quiet person, but she's talkative and loud. our taste in music is different: I prefer calm music while she loves hip hop and rap. our food preference is differen: she loves fast food and burgers. I love healthy food. she likes partying and going crazy.. but I don't. She wants to have a tatoo, but I do not like tatoos. I don't know.. we are just so different.
Despite of all the differences, I feel attracted to her. We kissed many times. I love smelling her, and kissing her lips, neck, nose, ears, and cheeks. I love making out with her. I love caressing her hand. I love being around her and talking to her. So my question is: Am i just infatuated by her and sooner or later I will get bored of her? or Do opposites really attract?
Most Helpful Girl
My husband is the complete opposite of me in soooo mainly ways but we level each other out. He's a lot like you but we have more difference. I've had a lot of bad happen to me so now I'm a glass half empty type of person and he's a glass half full. He helps me because of that. A lot of good has happened since I met him.
He is shy and I'm not. It helps him make friends because I'm like that. we just moved somewhere else and he's socially awkward at first. He has business dinners parties sometimes and I know how to break the ice so he gets comfortable. He has fun when we go out to a bar or club because I love to dance and he loves my attention.
He likes rap and I like alternative rock. But we have gotten used to the others music, and even though we still prefer our own we like the other too much to break up over it. He likes movies, I hate most movies so I don't watch much. I read a lot, he gets bored with it. But we enjoy each others company and that's what counts. Sometimes differences can be good for you or/and her. Most you can over look. Do you like her enough or not? Y'all just started, there is a lot more to learn about each other. Those things won't be the only differences.0
Most Helpful Guy
Having opposing interests is perfectly fine. But you both need to have certain essential similarities in mentality for the r/s to work and proceed without hiccups.2