My girlfriend is mad at me because 3 days i go i told her i would hangout wit her today, but i have to study cause i have 3 things due on Monday. I thought she would be accepting of it but she is mad at me now and she said she was looking forward to today.
Wouldn't you be accepting of this or would you be mad too? I also hangout with her about twice a week but this week i did not.
I've been down that road. I would get upset when it happened back in the day, mostly because I had been looking forward to getting to see him only to have him back out almost last minute. I'd get a bit worked up, though it didn't last long as he had very good reason. It's not like he cancelled because something better came up with friends.
Now we schedule what days we'll hang out the beginning each semester, and sometimes even study together to keep both of us happy so that's something you could try out as well.
Ladies would you be mad if your boyfriend said he would hang out with you and then didn't cause he had to study? No as I do not put much positive investment or stock in what guys claim they will do.
Wouldn't you be accepting of this or would you be mad too? I would be accepting as I would have already had something lined up for when the guy bailed or when hanging out got boring so I could cut it short and hang with my gals.
I would be a little upset because you should have taken your schoolwork into account when you were making plans. Either don't promise something you can't deliver on or get your work done ahead of time so you have time to see her.