I'm dating and asexual girl, The nicest girl I ever met we went on a few nice dates and we have kissed and all but when I found out she asexual I was confused because well Sex is important in relationships and she might be the best girl in the world but if the relationship is never going to lead to sex I don't think I can handle that peronally.
I feel weird when I kiss her cause she tells me "she doesn't mind it" so I get confused. I need to know this so I can decide whether to leave and not waste her and my time or stay
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think they do. Most understand enough that they're the outliers and that sex is an important thing in relationships for other people, so they may do it with you for you unless they actually had an aversion to sex. Just from reading your description, I think this girl's more neutral than negative about it.0
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Most Helpful Guy
It's confusing me too, why would an asexual person even bother dating? You could just be friends with people since there is no desire there0