I personally think I'm ugly as hell and can only be fixed with plastic surgery because I've never had a girl interested in me before but anyway, I do want to get rid of this mindset, how can I do this? I just want a girlfriend to love unconditionally and make happy, but I know my mindset won't get me anywhere. Help would be great, thanks!
Most Helpful Girl
You aren't ugly and you have pretty eyes. We are our own worst critics I feel the same way most of the time. Just remember others see you as more than you do and to be kind to yourself.0
Most Helpful Guy
My goodness, you remind me of myself a few years ago, when I had even begun saving up for plastic surgery! I was disgusted with my looks. Of course, some insecurities still remain, but I would never even think of plastic surgery. The side effects would be terrible, and a botched surgery could make me look even worse.
I don't suppose you look 'ugly' In fact, I would trade places with you any day, If I looked like you, I'm pretty sure I would have had more success with women than I am having now (which is zero, because my insecurities prevent me from approaching women).0