Is it easier to go for someone you find average vs. someone you find attractive due to nerves?
Could this be a reason why some people want to be with an 8-10 but settle with a 5-6? Have you ever experienced this?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, absolutely! If someone was too attractive, I'd automatically assume that she's either already taken, or she would reject me anyway.
Most Helpful Girl
I did have an 8-10 first. He was sexy af but a player. Now I'd say I have 6-7 and is very faithful.
What Guys Said 3
Yes, but I consciously had to force myself to quit doing so as it was doing nothing for my self-confidence at the time.
So now, if I see someone I like, I'll shelve my worry and just talk and see what's going on in their head. Embarrassment is nothing compared to a life spent wondering "What if..."
I don't find this to be true for me. Maybe true for others though.
I think of it like I want a 5-6 who will get prettied up to an 8-10 for a date night.
To be honest I don't want to be with someone who is always in make-up and fancy dresses.
What Girls Said 0
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