I've known this girl for about 2 months in my classes. At first I think I was closed to any relationship so I was a bit distant from her on the emotional side but in the last two months I've seen her almost everyday so I guess I started to have feelings towards her. I went to her house a few time, she already offered me to sleep at her house but we never kissed or anything more than physical contact. We had a party a few days ago and I was a bit too drunk. She didn't seemed really receptive to me that day and she slept with another older guy that night but I know it was only a one night thing. I think I realise I cared about her when I heard that, I was mad against myself.
The next day, she was acting all normal, texting me hearts and everything so I don't know where we both stand. And I know I should talk to her about it but I am so bad in talking about emotions. So where do you think I stand?
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Just look her in the eye and say "what's going on between us. Have you friend zoned me or was that 'one night stand' a forever thing. Make up your mind because I have made up mine". Say that to her with a hint of anger in your voice. Don't sound too angry though otherwise you will have been more than friend zoned0