Girls sending Nudes?

A girl has constantly been sending my boyfriend nudes and he's saving them. do i...

  • Beat her up
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  • Talk to him about it
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  • Talk to her about it
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  • Tell him to block her
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  • Just ignore it
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Most Helpful Guy

  • The fact that he's saving them is unacceptable.

    Anyway, sending nudes is not a good idea, ESPECIALLY if you're under 18. In general, it's not a good idea because you can get back-stabbed, but under 18 is especially problematic as that carries many legal ramifications that can arise.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • You should talk to him, she may not even be aware that you are his girlfriend or that he has one. Also, just the fact that he's saving them does point out that he's not good boyfriend material at all and you should honestly think about breaking this off with him. A boyfriend should be loyal to you. He should respect you enough to not save any nudes of other women because he should know that would be disloyal of him and it would make you feel uncomfortable. Anyways, still talk to him but just know he'll probably lie or make excuses so you might want to consider breaking it off. It seems like you deserve better than him.

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What Guys Said 10

  • If she is your age, then she is sending child pornography. And he is receiving child pornography. And even though the are both under age themselves, they can get in trouble for that.

    Since you know about it and know that he is saving them, it seems that you have already talked to him about it and nothing changed. If he wants her pictures and doesn't care what you think, then you would be best off forgetting him.

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  • Is this girl also on here? If so I may have talked to her about it a while ago… but yeah defiantly talk to him about it.

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  • if he is saving them. then he is the first person you should talk to

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  • Yes for sure talk to him about it and if he is saving them, break up with him. Nude photos are not cool

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  • Neither you break up with him

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  • Talk to him about it. Number one failure of relationships, communication. That's probably why he's cheating anyway

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  • have guys send you nudes

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  • I say dump him straight away!

    But it's bet to talk about it. But seriously what are you wating for? Dump him!
    The faster you dump him, the faster you get over him, the father you meet a better guy!

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  • I don't see why you'd be mad at her. He's the one who's keeping them and not telling her to stop.

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  • ... why was "beat her up" the first option? Just saying.

    Anyway... B.

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What Girls Said 14

  • I would honestly break it off with him. If your boyfriend respects you he would have asked that girl to not send him any nudes. If she continued after he asked her to stop he should have blocked her and cut all contact with her. The fact that he is accepting these nudes and saving them and not doing anything about it makes me feel as if he does not respect you or your relationship.

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  • dealing with this from 14. poor souls.
    u gotta confront him and if he gives a damn about you, he'll clean up his act, especially if u threaten to leave.

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  • He's saving them? Gosh, just break up already. This is not cool.

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  • No, you break up with him

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  • I would try talking to him first to let him know it bothers you, if you start off with just telling him to block her it'll make him feel like you are trying to "control him". Beating her up could only get you both hurt so, uh, no. As got talking to her about it, girls who generally send such things to guys with the knowledge the guy is in a relationship don't tend to be "rational" anyway.

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  • Talk to him about it. She probably doesn't even know that you exist. Your boyfriend shouldn't be receiving nudes from anyone nor should he be saving them

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  • It's not his fault (necessarily) that she's sending nudes to him. He can't control her behavior. However, he should not be saving them, and he should be having a conversation with her and letting her know that he is in a relationship and doesn't want them. For those things to happen, you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel.

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  • These options are um...

    Talk to him?
    Breaking up is also an option. Very high option. If you have any respect for yourselve.

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  • Of it annoys you talk to him about it and get him to change his number or emailif it doesn't stop either dump him or go smack her homewrecking face

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  • Straight up leave him if he's saving them. That's messed up. Don't waste your time on either of them.

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  • You should be worrying about your boyfriend saving some chick's nudes, not about a girl who might not even know you exist sending them and considering beating her up...
    You have to talk to him about it.. I'd personally break up with him.

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  • Talk to him! It's one thing if the photos are unwanted, and she's just sending them, but if he's saving them there's a problem.

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  • Talk to him about it... He shouldn't be saving some bitches nudes...

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  • Your boyfriend needs to be a grown up and explain his behavior

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