I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. Things were great for the first year and a half but they have been slowly getting worse. We have lived together for two years and have found ourselves acting more like housemates than in a relationship.
Anyway, he often has friends over and I get along with them really well but I think I'm slowly falling in love with one. When we first met I felt an instant attraction and after talking realised we have a lot of common interests (something I've always struggled accepting in my current boyfriend). Every time he comes over we laugh together and whenever I catch his gaze I know he feels the same connection.
We all went to a wedding this past week and I noticed him and I were standing together the whole time while my boyfriend barely noticed me.
I really don't know what to do. I am so loyal but My boyfriend and I are clearly unhappy and I feel like the worst human being only getting butterflies when I hear his friends voice.
A guys opinion would be amazing. It's not like I would break up with my boyfriend and date his friend but would there ever be a chance even 5..10 years down the track?
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If you are clearly NOT happy with your current boyfriend, and you have this magnetic attraction towards his friend, then the BEST thing to do, would be to break up with your boyfriend. Once you are done with this, you can try dating his friend, IF he is fine with it. Because a lot of guys refuse to date their friend's ex due to some 'bro code' or something (which I'm not really aware of).1