I don't really want kids and if I was to somehow change my mind, I'd almost certainly want MY own kids. Also it would just be a constant reminder of her past with her ex. Plus there's often the drama when the ex wants to see the kids too. It just seems like an unpleasant scenario to me :/
Nope, I wouldn't. First of all, I don't want kids. Second, if I wanted kids for whatever, then I'd prefer to only have kids I truly consider my own. I don't think I'd ever be able to really feel like a part of that family, it would always be a bit broken in my opinion and it would just overall be a difficult situation.
No. Because I want to start a fresh relationship and not be the continue part of a failed relationship. As hard as it sounds, its true. I want her to have MY children and I want to be her past and her future, and not just the future looking at her past. Also he wants to see the children too probably, so I have to accept that there always is something that keeps them in contact. This is the biggest dealbreaker possible for me. Right after psychopathic murderer.
No, because first of all, I'm not sure if i even want children to begin with. Second, i don't want to be burdened with parenting a child who came from another man's testicles. Third, if i did want children, I'd want children of my own.
Yeah, i don't see it being a problem i would date her cause the children are part of her why would it be a issue , it's a package deal and seriously i would love the children like they were my own.
If I was dating the guy and I did not know he had kids or if the kid was living far away and I liked guy before I knew I would keep on dating him. If the guy is legally married but separated and has a kid but wants to date me, no.
I would think he was only trying to use me as a rebound and I do not want to deal with drama from a possible crazy ex wife.
If he did not know he had kids then yes I would still date him
I would but it's different for a guy and girl. Guys usually don't have custody of their kids and only have them on the weekends. I would date a guy but I would be hesitant, not because of the kid, but because of his possible baby mama drama.