Most Helpful Guy
Its a dealbeaker.
I don't really want kids and if I was to somehow change my mind, I'd almost certainly want MY own kids. Also it would just be a constant reminder of her past with her ex. Plus there's often the drama when the ex wants to see the kids too. It just seems like an unpleasant scenario to me :/1
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, I wouldn't. First of all, I don't want kids. Second, if I wanted kids for whatever, then I'd prefer to only have kids I truly consider my own. I don't think I'd ever be able to really feel like a part of that family, it would always be a bit broken in my opinion and it would just overall be a difficult situation.1